Kirti finishing her year 1. November 2012

Well there were twice she was bullied and I had to go to school, Kirti seem to be a submissive type as I always ask her to forgive all the wrong doing of Kiran. I guess its my mistake corrected myself and now I ask Kirti to scold Kiran if she makes mistakes and tell her why she should not do it. Things seems to be falling in place and Kirti is excited for everything and anything, the entire year had so many things that every day I get back to listen to stories. Once of her recent exciting stuff was she winning a medal at school on her sports day; when she left home she kissed me bye and told me “I will do my best and get a medal” I was hoping and praying like mad she gets a medal as she was really expecting one. To her strong intention and my prayers (I guess) all the students in the class are given medal so the little heart did not shatter.

Should Kirti default in things Pravin will trigger me and her saying that “tomorrow you need to wear tracks… make sure u take the exercise book to school….bring your colouring set…ect”

Suddenly along the way I realize so many things that have become a routine … she never leaves to school without kissing me good bay and say love you mama when she leaves to school. I write love notes on her home-works books and she writing back some notes for me. Making me feel happy by doing her best in her school and tell me that she will do her best and make me proud. After small achievements she asks me “are u proud of me mama??”.

All that she does at school will be watched by Pravin, the days Pravin does not make it to school Kirti has a tough time handling herself. She says “no one to look after me after school until get into aunty Jane’s car” thiru is always scared and to an extent he refuses to send Kirti to school when Pravins is on leave or holiday; well I prefer it too or else Thiru will make my life a living hell as me to call her teacher… call the school get ms. Jane go to school early call home oh dear never ending calls and trouble.

It’s her last days of the term and Kirti has to return her books and she is happy that her cousin Trisha will be join her the next term at school.

Kirti always makes me feel happy and excited about things in life.

Kiran’s second year at Kindergarten

Kiran has been a good girl for the first year, the second year seemed a bit hard as she had to go alone to kindy as Kirti started her academics at school. Kiran’s favorite teacher is “teacher Nistha” she teaches her math at school.

Kiran did not want to go to school for a week kept making fuss and crying like mad to go to school. I was worried may be the environment at school is bad and she does not like things there; I drove her to school one day and spoke to the teachers there and I realized that there was this guy called “asraf” he speaks loud and kiran is so very scared of him and I spoke to boy and told them to be friends and from that day onwards Kiran went school happily.

One day she came home with a pinch mark on her cheek, I asked kiran what happened and she said that it was one of her classmate “Malisa” she pinched her. I was worried called the teacher and they did not know about it. When the teacher asked Malisa she said …”If I had pinched her it as to be pink why is it balck???” (it was the next day soo it turned black). Kiran told her “you pinched me and don’t tell a lie” when the teacher passified for the truth from both. Malisa did pinch Kiran and she apologized to Kiran. After a few week I visited the teacher and Malisa came running to me and said “aunty I say sorry to Kiran so many times but she don’t want to be friends with me”. I was surprised when I asked Kiran she told me “Malisa told pinched me lied to me sooo I never want to be friends with her anymore” well I could not change her feelings to malisa but I remind Kiran that when people say sorry we must accept it and forgive them well she said “Sorry no cure” man oh man she used these words in the right context that I was taken aback…. I then choose my words carefully especially when Kiran is around she is such a parrot and I have to say wise cute parrot.


Kiran keeps so much to herself and she can pull real surprises. Being the last one always gets the best of all from cousins and grandparents, whatever she say’s stays… have to convince her into doing things.

Kiran was being secretive about her dance in the concert it was a total surprise to see her on stage, she was wonderful with smiles. She performed "Crazy Frog Dance" most adorable.